Yesterday I made a joke on my brothers status, this joke was followed up by a rude comment from his current girlfriend. When I messaged my brother to ask him why I had received a rude comment from his girlfriend I received an inbox message full of lies from her which even said that I had made up a significant life event in order to get back into my brothers life. This is the same brother who lived with me, repeatedly got drunk while living with me (and my toddler son), and just generally took the piss out of my hospitality (for almost two years) so much that in the end I had to ask him to leave, not what you expect when you offer someone a home, so to be honest, I was never going to make up a significant life event to get back into his life was I? His girlfriend yesterday told me that I was not in the right stage of a relationship to make jokes to my brother, I didn’t realise after knowing somebody for 27 years and sharing parents with them there was a wrong stage of a relationship??? She explained how she has only just ALLOWED him to have me back in his life and he won’t be doing it again and I only have myself to blame. She then went on to accuse my mum of constantly calling my brother, called her pathetic and then unfriended and blocked my mother from her Facebook account. Please bear in mind this is the same girlfriend who was having a relationship IN MY HOUSE, where my toddler was present, whilst still living with, being married to and being in a full relationship with her ex husband!
The sole purpose of yesterday’s exercise was to cause a family scale argument which she didn’t because she obviously does not know my family, we are gladiators and we stick together! Not one person (other than her) who has read my comment thinks it was offensive and warrants the messages I received.
Many of you may be thinking why am I airing my dirty laundry on here for all to see… because I’d like all of my friends and family to know who she truly is. She has definitely shown her true colours and the treatment my mum has received in all of this is absolutely diabolical, I’m pissed off but could never really like a woman who came to my house and did the things she did. And as for him… I knew when he sent me a friend request that having him back in my life would just be trouble so I will never make the same mistake again. When his relationship ends with this girlfriend I will not be here to pick up the pieces. He will rue the day he ever ALLOWED his hell hound be this disrespectful to his family!!!